The Path to Focus.

Part one.

Focus is one of the most important things treated with much concern in thine life…
Without focus one looses a  vision to strive for and a mission to live for.

Mountains come and block our eyes so as to set on what is on our shear front and not at the distant next future.
Valleys makes it deeper for us not to have hope in crossing to the next generation.
Forces gather around to form a nuclear negative thought that life is meaningless without some people and some things
Whereas it is we who need to FOCUS on what is our destiny.
Our ways may be full of thorns,
Stumbling blocks may come our way and make us fall to distort our vision so that your mission in life is altered.
Mountains become so high
Paths become rocky and thorny and unbearable to walk on.
Forces bombard your mind with negative thoughts and emotions that thinking Is 99% altered towards derailments, hopelessness,effortless,and faithless.
What more of positive would you need in life full of darkness.
But the battle is always within.
What will thy strive for?
What’s my purpose and goal?
Do I need negativity or positivity?
Maturity starts creeping in and the desire to reach the vision and accomplishing the mission becomes a yearn from the heart.
“A thousand may fall on my left and ten thousands on my right…but I shall stand and remain watching my enemies being scattered” is what The Most high always whispers to you ear
Vision and mission always have their test
Question is, are you ready to face them and challenge them or are you going to sit back and let them harass you till your last dream is shattered?

Part two

Choose wisely for focus is a path that many have perished because most didn’t have the plan to go with… Many were focused but the fire burnt out, many focused but the steam became cool, many focused but pride stole away their direction.
Focusing need balance,
Just like the way you hold that camera in a balanced state so as to not cause any blur  vision, so it is with life.
You need to focus properly for the right capture…any shaking will make the vision blurred and henceforth not noticeable.
Your mind, heart, soul and spirit need to all be in one accord.
Whatever you think should be in accordance with your instincts your feelings and your understanding and approach towards situations.
When one decide to lead and overwhelm the rest get fed up and there’s total confusion and that’s when you here “I’m messed up totally”
These words come out because of lack coordination with and within our selfish singled concentration.
In life, as dads always want to give serious advices, “never let one concentration dictate but let all concentrations agree then decide…”
It may be hard but its worth while.
Focus is not just seeing to achieve but also the move to achieve the progress more than the goal, the patience more than the results, the maturity and growth and CONSISTENCY more than the success
For success is not a one day result but a process after many failures.



Ever wondered why growth is needed in the society?
Ever wondered why people with diligence and devoted ones are always on the top crew?
Ever wondered why people with encouragement,mercy,love and all virtues are always considered to be right?
Ever wondered why people with a vision are established as higher course of something?

Wondering is something but implementation is another thing,
The same people you’re wondering about may be us, them, OR you

Only if….
You stop wondering and put implementation at work….
Implementing?you ask
How?you wonder again….
It all begins with a step of choice
CHOOSE to create a NAME
There’s a difference between a name and HAVING A NAME!
Great people were not just born…
They chose a path…a path of having a NAME, a path they visualised a legendry life, a path they sat,wondered,thought and ACTUALLY implemented that’s why they are called great people.
IT won’t work when you always sit and say “I want to be like her/him then go back to sleep???how???
Sacrifice has to be done. Decisions have to be made. The journey has to be embraced in your head and least of all your whole being has to subject itself to obedience and fulfilling results thereon
There has to be a mutual agreement with the soul, heart, & the mind so as to move on safely and effectively.
If We as a person embrace this, things like nepotism,tribalism,terrorism,CORRUPTION,and unfair justice will be very easy to eradicate….
But why are they becoming stronger? Because creating a name has become such a competition in that people will go to extra odds to create names for their own benefits…..
The Freedom fighters for instance if they thought of themselves we would still be under colonialism, but because they placed self-love away and became patriotic, we still mention them till today….they’ve been and will be legends forever because as long there’s our national anthem it always reminds us of the status before independence and after independence occurrences….
Creating a name is dying self and embracing others, acknowledging the next person’s needs over your needs….being there for someone more than having your time….
Fighting for consistency and not stagnation…
Having a successor in every area and not always being the successful one

Henceforth quit building your empire with wrong pillars and build it with substantial pillars…
Great example (for Christians) Jesus Christ’s Name is greater than any other name known and yet while on earth He did not do anything for Himself but always was a SERVANT LEADER.
#food for thought. 🙂

these hearts…..

As humans we always have a heart be it the ones called “hard hearts” “soft hearts” and whatever kind of other hearts are nick named by people.

one thing we should always put in mind is that before you nickname some one’s heart: on what basis are you nicknaming it?

may be the individual had too much that enough was enough and the person thought “Ive had it!” and ended up tearing away to his/her tears and when you find them you start telling them “have a strong heart.” Like really? do you know what was there before you met this person or you just heard a one minute story and decided to judge and tell the person to be strong?

we should never nickname someone’s heart if we do not understand what that heart went through. people are busy trying to hide their soft heart just because the society tell us that life is for the tough…and only the tough can survive….well before this came up there were many soft hearts that were in anguish and pain and realized if they continue with that no  progression will be seen at the end of the day.

but who said its wrong to cry and let it out when things go bizarre?who dictated when a person cries they loose their strength as a human being and become less of a person?who said that letting it out by screaming the pain out you’re nuisance?

all these were just people who just had enough and grew hard hearts ready to accumulate any form of voltage stress and could just slip by them….

do not let people dictate your stressful emotions and situations. the only time they should so is when they need to give you advice but if being alone and crying it out will help…DO IT?Its you who’s benefiting and not second party. Its not their stress its your stress….listen to the wise but treat your self….

if going out with friends and laughing it out is your remedy..have your way…

if sleeping the whole day is your thing SLEEP. whats stopping you?

if taking gallons of water is thy stress free activity TAKE IT as long as you wont drown swallowing hahahaha….

all am trying to say is:

when stress stikes…..

  • analyze it first.
  • see whether it need second party involved.
  • if not needing second party involvement…seek  passive advice and listen to the wise….then solve 🙂
  • if it needs second party,,yes they may advice you but don’t let them go hard on you…remember its your problem not theirs they only understand half of it not fully….
  • listen and respond wisely…do not be irrational about anything and everything.


  • being a human its okay to always fall in the emotional level but emotions just derail you back but it will not flee it just needs its timing.

all these i am saying is…after totally seeking the help…do what will now derail you away from the stress and feel free to do anything that will make the stress FLY AWAY WITH ITS STRESSFUL THOUGHTS.

That way you will have conquered all realms..”.the solving the stress realm and the emotional realm” and now good to go for the society.

w are not all hard hearten people we just need to realize what is our breaking level and use tactics to be back in top soaring high even with weak/soft hearts….


GOOD ALWAYS, HATE EVIL………#Amdone hope you enjoyed reading 🙂


Life has a tendancy of always wanting us to subject to its authority. Yet its main aim is to show that humility and submission is key in the society. At times you always go wrong and for you to get to the right you have to pave your through the wrongs so that the right may be seen in the light. Perhaps you did the right thing why this time don’t you need to pave your way through the right to go to the wrong? Its because life has showed you that right is satisfaction to its peak. 

You are wondering how?

That at times we have to subject to things that we are not the founders but we found them and not subjecting to them we are seen as immoral beings.  Some things like taste of food…there are sooo many taste but people of some reason subject under their own preferences and are not willing to try out a new one. They try out new ones after there is a certain pressure towards them, directly or indirectly -curious i bet 😉

what am i saying?

That at times we pass through many varieties but because of the mindsets we put that hinder growth we often choose the “devil” we know than embrace the “angel” that came into existence.

Now I have mentioned mindsets!

Mindsets are such strongholds that anyone who tries to change, alter or distract them is termed as an enemy. This is partially true to the people who have the right mindsets. What about the wrong mindsets now them think they’ve got it while they’ve lost it! Why on earth think to be a murderer and they say they have a goal. Now we can see what actually is wrong and some people wrong is right and others right is wrong. Seventh Day Adventist claim that its not right for them to eat meat while people of the same faith (other protestants) say that GOD gave the mandate or rather the authority to eat meat. Very conflicting.

But all in all people rejoice in their cultures as long as the don’t disturb the peace of another culture then the world systems will go on.

now to bring my ends meet,

Life has its own structure yet as beings we are given authority to either strengthen it or weaken it by A Supreme Power. We tend to view life more differently than the one who is sitted next to me. This is because my life imperative structure may be his obligation structure and vice versa.

Hence forth, things like judging will never cease as long as individual life structures and systems and norms are alive because all individuals think that that their way of life is much more human that another….but this is not rebellion is simply the lack of not relating. When we interact and relate the why in their behavior change and the rebellion in our mindsets get a root as to why people are the way they are and why some get it difficult to transform and even conforming at some point…(though its easier to conform that to transform).

Bottom line is, life simply gives you a book full of blank questions for you to fill….WHATEVER you wish, and at the same time gives you the mandate to mark those questions and grade yourself, where you see your flaws and strengths is upto you for the ultimate grading systems is DEATH where the final marking and analysis is done and there is no point of return.

think for a minute of some of the questions life has for you? think on how still life gives you time to realize your flaws and still gives you room to exploit your strength? Why want to rapidly finish your questionares and yet you’re aren’t sure of  where your life structure is leading you to? ARE YOU SURE THAT WHEN THERE IS NO POINT OF RETURN YOU WILL BE SATISFIED WITH WHAT YOU DID, ACCOMPLISHED AND GOTTEN RID OF??




This is something to think about:  4 WIVES

Once upon a time there was a rich King who had four wives.

He loved the 4th wife the most and adored her with rich
robes and treated her to the finest of delicacies. He gave
her nothing but the best.

He also loved the 3rd wife very much and was always
showing her off to neighboring kingdoms. However, he feared
that  one day she would leave him for another.

He also loved his 2nd wife. She was his confidant and was
always kind, considerate and patient with him. Whenever the
King faced a problem, he could confide in her, and she would
help him get through the difficult times.
The King’s 1st wife was a very loyal partner and had made
great contributions in maintaining his wealth and kingdom.
However, he did not love the first wife. Although she loved
him deeply, he hardly took notice of her!
One day, the King fell ill and he knew his time was short.
He thought of his luxurious life and wondered,   I now have
four wives with me, but when I die, I’ll be all alone.”
Thus, he asked the 4th wife , “I loved you the most,
you with the finest clothing and showered great care over
you. Now that I’m dying, will you follow me and keep me
“No way!”, replied the 4th wife, and she walked away
.             without another word.
Her answer cut like a sharp knife right into his heart.

The sad King then asked the 3rd wife, “I loved you all my
life. Now that I’m dying,will you follow me and keep me

“No!”, replied the 3rd wife. “Life is too good!
When you die, I’m going to remarry!”
His heart sank and turned cold.
He then asked the 2nd wife, “I have always
turned to you for help and you’ve always been there for me.

When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?”
“I’m sorry, I can’t help you out this time!”, replied the
2nd wife.  “At the very most,I can only walk with you to
your grave.”
Her answer struck him like a bolt of lightning, and the
was devastated.  Then a voice called out: “I’ll go with you.
I’ll follow you  no matter where you go.”

The King looked up, and there was his first wife. She was
very skinny as she suffered from malnutrition and neglect.

Greatly grieved, the King said, “I should have taken much
better care of you when I had the chance!”

In truth, we all have the 4 wives in our lives:

Our 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and
we lavish in making it look good, it will leave us when we

Our 3rd wife is our possessions, status and wealth.When we
die,  it will all go to others.

Our 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how much
they have been there for us, the furthest they can stay  by
us is up to the grave.
And our 1st wife is our Soul. Often neglected in pursuit of
wealth, power   pleasures of the world.

However, our Soul is the only thing that will follow us
where ever we go.Cultivate, strengthen and cherish it now,
for it is the only part of us that will follow   to the
throne  of God and continue with us throughout Eternity.

Thought for the day: Remember, when the world pushes you to
your knees, you’re in the perfect position to pray.


A life born out,
Seeking light,-
But there’s a process out,
A life born out,
Starts its journey from sight,
Hearing always is best,
This journey is also not an opt,
Thou life finds its way out,
Seeing is the most beautiful thing art,
Hearing-though impaired-becomes a curiosity,
Thus -alas!- the ears breaks out,
Singing of birds, lullaby of its mother,
Becomes a yearn,(leave a lot of curiosity),
Touching creeps in;palms open up-stretching,
Smiling becomes a hobby…
But wait;
One more thing got important,
A laugh bursts out,
New feeling never felt before,
Sight was just a start,
A sound from thy heart,
In depth of the stomach,
Feeling that unleashed the inward capacity,
Feeling untold in the beginning of the journey,
What is this feeling-question?
Comes out and feels like a forever stay,
Keeps everything in and of life smile,
Never tradable,
Creeping and fear out grown,
Optimistic dreams,dropping pessimist,
Life born out,Now worth living art.